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THE REAL SPILL! FLINTAs & THE SCENE

Wednesday, August 20

  La Federica

> Doors open at 19h

> Guided Talk · 19:30-21:30

  > Social Time · 21:30-23:00

!! Spots are limited !!

Join us in an evening of conversation¹ and connection. Let’s talk honestly about our experiences in s*x-positive spaces in the city. 

What’s it like to move through s*x-positive spaces as FLINTAs? What do we bring with us? Our desires, our boundaries, our questions, our armor? What are we looking for, avoiding, or figuring out? And what do we often leave unspoken?

This evening is an invitation to gather in community, share space for talking about what it means to show up in these spaces, in all our complexity. Whether you’re deeply familiar with s*x-positive environments or just beginning to explore, this is a space for expressing yourself, sharing and listening.

We’ll begin with a guided talk, moderated by your hosts, Silvi & Huma. It’s not a panel or a workshop. You’re welcome to participate actively or simply listen, whatever feels right. Together, we’ll explore what safety, pleasure, care, power, discomfort, and desire mean for us as FLINTA* folks in these spaces. We might speak about experiences that have felt affirming or alienating. We might touch on the roles we’re expected to play, and how we navigate our own needs in environments that often center other narratives.

There will be no pressure to disclose anything personal, and no expectation to arrive with answers. The space is grounded in mutual respect, curiosity, and gentleness. You’re welcome to bring questions, stories, frustrations, longings, or simply yourself, as you are.

After the talk, we’ll ease into informal time together: chatting and drinks!

¹The conversation will be held in English. The rest of the evening, as always, will be multilingual.

*We’ll kick things off at 19:30 on the dot, so try not to be late.

**This is a FLINTA*-first event, but all queers are welcome.

Any questions or doubts, you can always send us a DM on Instagram! (@shahmaranbcn)

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Esta vez nos reunimos en La Federica para charlar y compartir nuestras experiencias como personas FLINTA* en espacios s*xo-positivos. La conversación será solo en inglés en esta ocasión (estamos trabajando para que los próximos eventos sean bilingües).

Si no hablas inglés, igualmente te invitamos a que vengas al espacio social empezando a las 21h30 (con entrada libre): en los encuentros de SH?HM?R?N hablamos muchos idiomas y siempre hay lugar para conectar.

*Este es un evento primero para FLINTAs, pero toda persona queer es bienvenidx.

Cualquier duda o pregunta, siempre puedes mandarnos un mensaje en Instagram! (@shahmaranbcn)

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SH?HM?R?N is a fully self-managed project, in which we create safe(r), international and s*x-positive spaces for the FLINTA* community (Women, Lesbian, Intersex, Non-binary, Trans, A-gender) in Barcelona, and advocate for alternative relationship models, such as ethical non-monogamy, polyamory and relationship anarchy. Every event you attend helps us to keep the community alive and create more events for us.
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SH?HM?R?N es un proyecto totalmente autogestionado, en el que creamos espacios (más) seguros, internacionales y s*x-positive para la comunidad FLINTA* (Mujeres, Lesbianas, Intersexuales, No Binarias, Trans, A-género) en Barcelona, ??y abogamos por modelos de relación alternativos, como la no monogamia ética y la anarquía relacional. Cada evento al que asistes nos ayuda a mantener la comunidad viva y a crear nuevos eventos.